Sexual orientation:  Dyke-leaning pansexual

Turn-ons:  Intelligence, quirkiness, cool tattoos, piercings, geeks, nerds, leather, metal, strawberries, thigh-highs and garter belts, tying rope/seeing rope on someone, arms and backs (men), varying body areas (women), bones (hip bones, collar bones, the spine), curves, pin-ups, spanking, biting, dancing, and freckles.

Turn-offs:  Poor grammar, fake blonde hair, clinginess, flaccid penises, condescension, sloppy kissers, men with small dogs, un-artistic tattoos, dickishness, bad teeth, and cutesy little animal vibrators.

Currently, I am in the final semester of my undergrad for a degree in English/Writing.  I hope to go to grad school next year for a master’s along the lines of women’s/gender/sexuality studies.

I was raised in a conservative environment that was not sex-positive, and I am attending a small school in the Bible Belt, so I’ve recently been doing a lot of my own research on sex.  Then, in the past year, I bought my first vibrator (a Babeland Bullet—which I still absolutely adore) and began dating my best friend—a girl.  Both were two of the best decisions I’ve ever made, and I’ve been on the trek for sex-positivity, information, and education ever since.

I love dancing, decorating, sewing, and buying used books on women, sex, and BDSM.  I’m still discovering my body and what I like (and enjoying the process), and well, generally making up for lost time.

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