Sexual orientation: Pansexual / Art Fag

Turn-ons: Semen, lingerie, legs (women), hands and arms (men), ghost-like caresses, bondage, well-written erotica (including dirty emails from Joseph), aggressiveness, voyeurism, mild exhibitionism, delicious food, self-awareness, stilettos, motorcycles, leather, corsets, arty and “sophisticated” body modification, oil paint, and spanking.

Turn-offs: Latex, bravado, indecisiveness, indifference, breast implants, heavy make-up, most porn (although it can be funny), toys that aren’t made with cleanliness in mind, spitting, fake tans, shitty tattoos.

I am a fine arts student on the verge of graduating, who also enjoys writing articles for local publications, cooking, yoga, and learning new things, such as piano and book-making. I have always been obsessively interested in sexuality – conceptually speaking as well as within my own life – and that paired with my general initiative attitude has led to a wide variety of experiences and seemingly endless discussion.

My first vibrator was a version of the rabbit-style vibrators, a Rockin’ Robin, and it was actually rather frightening to me! I bought it on a whim at the insistence of a female friend who, obviously, has a body with different needs than mine. I also had less conception of what I needed in the first place. Eventually I got rid of that vibrator and made it my mission to understand my body better and how to please myself.

Lovers and toys later, I am currently living with my husband, Joseph, and I feel more in possession of my body and my sexuality than I ever have. It is something that I happily, joyously share with him and we explore ourselves and each other further with the trust and intimacy that we have cultivated.

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