Comments on: Review Series: Bend over Beginner – Part 1

By: Adema

Adema — Sun, 29 May 2011 15:50:20 +0000

in a past relationship myself and my lover used a double ended dildo and a regular strapon dildo for some anal play, both of which were quite enjoyable. it was during a large blooming period for me so i was very eager to spend money and have fun with it all, however there were some things i wish i had done better. first, i would’ve research how to buy a good dildo. i purchased a star performer “leading man,” which is an 8.5×2.25 dildo with balls and a suction cup. and let me tell you, while that thing worked, it was AMAZING. but, after only a short while, it started to burn horribly when i used it, so it was no fun at all! this is when i learned about phthalates. steer clear of dildos with phthalates they’ll hurt you and wont last long! secondly, i would’ve been a little more sensitive that i was asking my girlfriend to suddenly pretend she had a penis. we were very open with discussion on most things, but i later found out she bared some resentment to the experience. but all in all, i love pegging and am actually looking to purchase a new harness and dildo soon. possibly something from Basix by pipedream, all hypo-allergenic and phthalate free!

keep up the good work!

By: Milkman

Milkman — Tue, 09 Mar 2010 20:52:40 +0000

Late in coming to this, but oh well. My experience with pegging is (sadly) limited – double ended dildos don’t work well in my experience. It’s a big turn on for me; I would love to have a traditional “strap-on” used on me, but alas my wife is a large woman and few harnesses actually fit her. This one would… though the size of the dildos shown would leave me wanting – even if both could be used at once. I need a large harness that can handle large (extra large?) toys… I regularly use toys anally on myself (at least once a week) and go for ones quite a bit more substantial. I suppose I’m something of a size queen, but being straight makes the term more awkward.

It’s not quite the same, but I’ve gotten my wife to fist me a few times and I love it. She’s always worried about hurting me, though, so we don’t do it near as often as I’d like. I also need to make sure to clean out well beforehand (which I’m used to before playing with myself, anyway, so it’s not a big deal; just means less spontaneity). It’s a shame that she’s worried, I have and enjoy toys that are larger than her fist and she’s enjoyed watching me use them.

By: Undressed

Undressed — Mon, 22 Feb 2010 04:00:42 +0000

Indeed, I’m super proud of him and I feel really lucky to be in this position. I can understand, from the female perspective, not wanting to do it because it’s foreign territory that requires a position of dominance. Some women just can’t get into that. Plus, there’s the whole poo factor, which some people have difficulty with. Maybe someday your current partner will be able to reconcile her difficulty with it.

- Mimi

By: Michael

Michael — Fri, 12 Feb 2010 17:54:19 +0000

Your boyfriend is lucky. I had an ex back in college who wanted to try it, and I was game. We had an open relationship and she liked the company of women, so she already had the strap-on. Once I got over the initial discomfort it was great.

My current partner, however, says she’d never be able to do that. It’s not so important to me as to be a deal breaker, but it’s a shame. Good on you (and great for him) for getting past the stigma.

By: Pleasurists #63 | A View from the Floor

Pleasurists #63 | A View from the Floor — Sun, 07 Feb 2010 19:48:55 +0000