Contest — What are you Thankful for?

Thanksgiving is quickly approaching and you can debate the meaning and motivations behind it all you want. Does it mean stuff your face? Is it just a speed bump on the way to almighty Christmas? Is it a reminder of the white man’s ability to rewrite history?

Personally, I like to think of it as a time to be thankful of what we have. Be it family, friends, Lady Gaga, the Hitachi Magic Wand, your lover’s tongue, or Sasha’s Grey’s ass…we want to know.  Don’t think that we want something for nothing, though. We’ll pay you for your confessions of gratitude!

UtBRS-package1Specifically, Babeland has been gracious enough to provide us with a set of Under the Bed Restraints to give away — that’s something to be thankful for right there!

If you’ve been reading our site for awhile, you know that we are a big fan of the restraint system. If not, well shame on you..and you can read our review here.

So all you have to do is leave a comment on this post telling us what you are thankful for. Then we will use our not-at-all arbitrary system for picking the best one and send that person the uber-nifty restraint system. Extra points for being thankful for sex-related things!

Deadline for comments is the big day — November 26th.

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  • Epiphora says:

    Excellent contest! I am also thankful for Sasha Grey’s ass… and tits… and face…

  • Kayla says:

    I’m thankful for the BDSM community. Without all of it (both online and offline) I wouldn’t have learned as much as I’ve learned so far about the entire lifestyle. They’re always helpful, willing to show you how to do things, and always treat you like you’re family. I haven’t fit in somewhere so well in a long time.

    I’m also thankful for my boyfriend and family as well. The normal things. Health, too. :)

  • Sammi says:

    I’m thankful to have a loving partner who’s willing to experiment sexually, and is always ready to satisfy me. Whether it’s with toys, bondage, spanking, or gentle lovemaking, I’m so thankful to have him!

  • Rose says:

    GREAT contest!!

    Lets see…

    I am thankful for the kisses my lover bestows upon me…my caring family…my zune mp3 player, my Lelo Ella (<3), my amazing huge bed which has hosted many sexy-time flings…

    How gentle my lover is with me, how he kisses me on my neck and everywhere else…his tongue which kisses, licks, and speaks fabulous words…

    I am thankful for my favorite bloggers in the bloggersphere, and my LGBT friends who stand by me no matter what, as I stand by them.

    I love my mom, my sister, my dad and step dad, and all of my friends. I am thankful for my cat AND my pussy. And the fabulous ta-tas that were gifted to me by fabu genetics…

    I could go on and on, really…

  • Saraid says:

    I’m thankful that I have a loving boyfriend as well as friends who support me. And of course, I’m thankful for my Pure Wand.

  • L says:

    I am thankful for self-induced orgasms, because honestly, if I couldn’t get myself off, my day-to-day drudgery as a government office drone would just be too much to bear. Especially since the cute guy in my office is so not interested. So yes, I am thankful for orgasms. And the lovely reviewers who have led me to my current favorite toys, without which my self-loving sessions would just be so much less fulfilling.

    (Also, I’ve been lusting after the Under the Bed Restraint system for a good seven months now, after I finally moved to a place that let me take my antique headboard out of storage.)

  • EffinSara says:

    I’m thankful that, after months apart, I am back on the same continent as my partner once again. I am also thankful that our time apart allowed us to learn things about each other sexually that we never would have discovered while together… watch your partner masturbate over webcam for months on end and of course you’ll see and come to learn exactly the ways in which he/she likes to be touched!

    …Not something I’ll be announcing to my relatives at the Thanksgiving dinner table :)

  • Raven Quince says:

    Thankful for the way he makes me feel. The pressure on my neck, the wrists bound tight, the dripping sex running down my thigh. The warmth of his breath against my neck, and the closeness of his lips to my ear. Thankful for the check-in, “What color are you?” “Green,” I reply.

  • I’m thankful for our mess being over with, for a husband who is as devoted to me as I am to him, for his willingness to change, for his fluffy and warm chest that I always use as a pillow, and I’m thankful for him being from Texas (because everything is bigger in Texas, and I mean everything ~_^).

  • Jack says:

    I am thankful for my girl’s curvy body, warm opening, and how she likes to tease and please me.

  • Alan & Michele says:

    I’m thankful for a loyal disease-free partner that will let me tie them up, spank them, and role play with me anytime.

  • Lady K says:

    I am thankful for a girlfriend who is wonderful to me (in bed and out) the existence of vibrators (which, at 19, I’ve only recently discovered) and family I will be seeing/ talking to very soon :)

  • Alley says:

    Ok, so I am thankful for a million things, most of which would be undeniably cheesy if I actually said them. The most current thing I can think of, well…

    I am thankful that J got to come home to us for two weeks during his deployment. I am thankful for the time we spent as a family, the passion we still have for eachother, and the mind blowing sex we sill manage to have with two small kids around. I am also thankful he had the foresight to book a suite on our trip to Boston while he was here so we could still have sex. I am most thankful for the fact that I can talk to him everyday…we never had that on past military deployments.

  • Lilly says:

    More than anything, I am thankful for my partner and top. My whole life I’ve had a kinky and submissive side just under the surface waiting for the person I could truly trust and allow in. Fortunately for me, he had a dominant side waiting for someone to ask for spankings. He’s never once made me feel shame for my darker wants/needs. I’ve been abused in the past by people I trusted, but somehow I know that this one actually deserves my trust and love. I can’t tell him all of this personally (it would embarrass him terribly) but if feels nice just to throw out into the world how happy I am.
    We’re just starting our collection of kink-related items and this would be a fine start for a lifetime of fun.

    Thanks for the contest!

  • Wilhelmina says:

    i can’t believe i’m submitting this as my “thankful for” after all my complaints about marrieds and their annoying mushiness:

    i’m thankful for his consideration and patience. i’m thankful for his not taking advantage of me emotionally even though he could do it so so easily. i’m thankful for his actually *courting* me, kind of, before we got together. i’m thankful for him telling *me* how crazy he is about me and all the things he likes about me. i’m thankful for him making fun of me for being overly worried about *everything*, but being ok with it. i’m thankful for his warmth in bed at night and his mouth, tongue, and hands…

  • I am thankful for the welcome I have received into the kink/BDSM scene. Also for my partner for allowing me to be my kinky, pervy self.

  • I am thankful for my boy, and our cats, and the lovely people I’ve met online this year since becoming a sex toy reviewer. I’m also thankful for my friends who are coming over to have Thanksgiving dinner tomorrow. Gathering people to enjoy delicious food together is one of my favorite things.

  • Tom says:

    I’m thankful for lots of things. I forget to be thankful for lots of things. So i’m thankful for the chance to be reminded sometimes to thank family, friends and others for being there, helping out. Be it a hug, cooking food, or finding time to be with my partner alone and get naughty…
    I’d like to also thank my right hand, especially my middle finger and index finger for their magnificent work in the line of pleasuring others, and evolution. Sex is fun, and for that, i’m thankful. Breasts, pussies, clitorises, buxoms, cocks – the world is a place to be in awe and thankful if you live it right.

  • Jacqueline says:

    I’m thankful for my incredible girlfriend and the very, very few friends at our hyper-conservative school who actually know she’s my girlfriend. I love that she complements me perfectly, from being the perfect top for me to being the perfect study partner to being the perfect roommate. Sometimes it’s so scary trying to start this life when no one can even know about it, but she’s beyond willing to try everything with me (which is also fun – and the under the bed restraints would be AMAZING (especially given the grad school applications sucking our budget away)) and I still can’t believe I got her.

    That was sappy enough. XD I’m also beyond thankful for our teensy tiny toy collection that just began in February. There’s so much exciting stuff still to explore in the future!

  • jennifer says:

    I am thankful for my 4 wonderful loing children and the man of my dreams, I am also thankful for my father to have taught me how to be a mother and a father. I am thankful to life in this country and to be able to better my life and the life of my family. Oh and I am thankful for my husbands mouth, fingers, tounge, his body, and his dick, he knows just what to do with it all every time….
    OOOhhhh LLLaaaallllaaaa Slap my ass baby, pull my hair, let me on top and i’ll take you there …

  • Renfield McShagington says:

    It’s gotta be the prostate gland…. Oooh god almighty it has to be the prostate gland.

  • Mercury says:

    I’m thankful for all my wonderfully accepting friends. All of my good friends know that I’m into kink and while not many of them want to dive into the pool with me, not one of them has called me a freak or anything of the sort. I realize that not many are lucky enough to be out to the people that are closest to them.

  • Matt says:

    I’m very thankful for my family, a job, and so many friends that care for me.

  • RickStar says:

    im thankful of everything god has given me :)

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